Iam 21 years old and have been with the same man for almost 6 years . We have 2 kids and 1 more on the way.
the passion between us died. It is like he does not even look at me in that way and he loves me and he is not in love with me.
It has been over 2 months sense we had good sex. I know I have changed I mean I know I have gained about 50 lbs and it kills me that he does not love me or look at me the same any more. How do I get the passion back? How do I become atractive to him and turn him on again. I caught him 2 weeks ago looking at skinny girls on myspace. I know he does not want me any more. I don't want to break up.
How do i make him love me again?
You are 21 years old and have 3 kids.
You need to worry about yourself right now.
Have a healthy 3rd baby and then focus on losing the weight and being the best mother you can be.
When you are back to being "successful", you'll be happier and your children and home will be too.
Don't worry about him. Worry about you and let him find his way back to you.
How do i make him love me again?
u kant MAKE him luvv u again, but u kan change his maind about loving u...strange comin frum a 13 year old...i kno
How do i make him love me again?
im 10years older and stuck in the same place, only i caught him chatting it up w/ other thinner younger grls, so i say to you good luck.
How do i make him love me again?
Talk to him and tell him how you feel ask him what he misses.. That's all you can do my god you have 2 kids together and one more on the way he has to realize that as well. And if he doesn;t and continues to push away try counselling! Good Luck hun
How do i make him love me again?
forget him
How do i make him love me again?
Talk to him. If you don't talk to him, you're not going to find anything out. No one on here knows the answer better than your husband. Don't be negative or emotional about it, either. If you are, he'll feel pressured and probably get upset. Just sit down and talk. Simple, but effective.
How do i make him love me again?
If you have a kid on the way, that can affect your hormones and your sex drive. Your hormones affect chemicals in your brain that can make you depressed which in turn make you very susceptible to thoughts that are not true.
Depending on how far along you are in your pregnancy, your husband might feel a bit awkward as you feel awkward about how to treat your body...even if it is the third time that you are pregnant. Your body might be more sensitive, less sensitive...a softer touch, a harder, rougher touch...so sex will be different during pregnancy. It just happens, it may not have happened the first two time you were pregnant, but it did for this third time.
There's nothing to lose by talking. That's all you have to do with your husband, just share your feelings with him and tell him of your concerns and what you wish your relationship would be like now.
Don't mention that you caught him looking at skinny girls on his myspace...you don't know what exactly that page was about it could have just been a page he just happened to open up when you walked by.
The language that you use is very personal and from your own perspective, so I don't believe that your husband has ever said to you that he doesn't love you or that he doesn't want you.
Really take the time to talk to him and hear his version of why things are different between the two of you. People and relationships just change, that's how the world goes. No one is the same forever on this earth. There are so many things happening to us at one time which influence us in how we think and react and it turn reshape our personalities and characters. We are constantly developing and changing, both physically and mentally.
Give your husband the benefit of the doubt and be open to listening to him and to talk to him.
How do i make him love me again?
Sad to say, but he was attracted to you how he met you (50 lbs earlier). Lose the weight, get your confidence back and flaunt it. I'm sure he still loves you,
but men are more visually stimulated than us women. He'll also appreciate that you cared enough to get your figure back.
People will read this and have comments about how you should "just love yourself with the weight, blah..blah..blah", but its the truth about losing the weight. Plus, you'll have more energy for all that wild sex you'll be having.
How do i make him love me again?
Age old story..... I lived it myself...... and now married to same man 30 yrs..... Men are funny creatures at best, they do not have the same burdens we women do, they THINK they do, but I hate to break it to them, NO WAY !!! and that is how it just is, they are supposed to be the bread winners, we the child bearers (sp), and so on and so forth, but the world has gotten out of sink with the plan !! SORRY, ppl, but that is the TRUTH !! Not putting anyone down or such , just stating a fact of life... Men have that old gene in them that makes them roam and look for the STRONG life mate, sorry again, but the truth, and unless they realy want to ignore it and are commited they will stray, not that women dont, because we do, but it is a very STRONG trait in a man that they have to fight all the time with in themselves !! NO, I do NOT think it is OK for them to stray !!!
Your hubby sounds just like a young version of mine, everything is ok until the kids start coming, and then they get this URGE to look over the fence, and think they can live on both sides.... You must learn to be a little assertive in your expectations and needs .... Speak up and stand your ground before it gets out of hand.... Ask him straight up about his feelings, about you and a family, make him face himself and you !!!! give him the chance to voice his fears and stuff... Dont be afraid to HEAR and LISTEN to what he has to say, and dont be afraid to speak up for YOU and those babies !!!!!!! God bless
How do i make him love me again?
Well he should love you with handles or without, but maybe you should try and give yourself a makeover, go away for a week, get him to mind the kids. Then get your hair done, spray tan, some sexy underwear and maybe go to the gym. When you return, meet him at a bar and suprise him with your new look. I say by the end of the night with a few wines, he's yours. Good Luck
How do i make him love me again?
Dress nicely, be positive always, drink lots of water, exercise, eat vegetables, pray ,take your vitamins and sleep a lot. It helps. And always make yourself good. It will keep you young, pretty and fresh!
How do i make him love me again?
Talk to him slowly, tell him the way u feel, let him know that at this time u need him ever than before for u are carrying his baby. Cut down on your intake of fat. let your communication with him be sweeter,remind him of the good times u shared together, the kids and the sweet family not to break up. Finaly ask him if he still LOVES you. If the answer is yes, u won, show u LOVE him too. Make Love to him. Note: this talk is at bed time when the kids are asleep.
