love myspace: November 2009

Monday, November 30, 2009

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

ok so i was in love with this girl in the beginning of the summer and she ended up not liking me anymore and she got a boyfriend. I cried night after night and day after day over her and i told her how i felt but she still wanted to be with her bf. I was so depressed that i couldn't even sleep at night and i had trouble eating. about a month ago i finally started getting over her but i looked on her boyfriends myspace profile a little while ago and i seen a picture of the both of them holding hands and stuff and idk it just crushed my heart. I love her so much, everything about her, her voice, her smile, her face, just her attitude and the way she is; like everything about her. i just wanna hold her so tight and kiss her and ever let her go, but i cant do that. I love her so much and id go to the moon n back 4 her and do anything for her. i'm about to cry now and i don't know what to do. i am so sad right now and i don't wanna cry and be depressed again. I love her so much, please help

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

I'm sorry man, but it's time to let go and get over her. She has moved on and you need to do the same.

If it makes you feel better... the best girl I'd ever met in my life.. I dated for a short period of time when I was on break (a couple weeks). I went back to school (a few hours away) and we talked just about every day. I ended up freaking out on her because of the pressure (lots of circumstances and the long distance) and we ended up calling it off. She has a boyfriend now, but instead of being selfishly obsessed I let her go and I've moved on to other girls and I don't feel sad about it anymore.

Take a few deep breaths and realize that once you stop your self-pity someone just as good or better will come along and brighten your life right back up.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

love hurts no way around it but what i would do is try your best to move on find friends and hang out with them to get your mind off of her and soon enough you will find someone else i know that you will never forget her but as the saying goes it better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all wish you all the best in getting over her

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

you need to get her out of your head and move on. shes not going to come back. just see other girls

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

Thats how I felt when my stupid Gandma wouldnt let me play Warcraft anymore!Now I just burn bugs out in the yard you should try it ITS FUN!

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

If she doesnt want to be with you there's nothing you can do, STOP LOOKING AT MYSPACE PHOTOS!!!! It only amplifies the pain. Only time can help, get out there and get in the dating game or get out and hang out with friends. Get your mind off it all. I know it all hurts and you feel as if the walls are falling down around you, but in time that will fade.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

o john its time to move on mate please join a club in your area that keep your mind off her ... good luck..

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

wow u really love her to the point u start crying every night..

aww how sweet but u seriously need to get over her she's breaking ur heart.

( i know it hard )

: ]

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

I know this will sound cliche, but it's totally true. If you love her you would let her go. Think about it, if you love her the only thing you would want would for her to be happy. I'm sorry to say this but, she IS happy with her boyfriend. Therefore you should forget about her and move on. There are many other amazing and beautiful women out there who would be happy to have your love. Don't lose hope.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

dude, grow a ******* sack. no wonder she doesnt like you. and im in like the same situation and yeah i love her and cant have her BUT i dont ******* cry about it. go fight somebody or go steal something. it doesnt matter what you do just stop being a little *****

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

I know what you mean and I know you dont want to hear this but "whats meant to be will be"

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

i hate myspace. it is evil and makes people like you suffer more. you will get over this it will just take time.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

Okay, do me a favor. Stand up, shake your body, from your hands and fingers, to your head, to your buttocks, to your feet and toes, then jump up and down. Now shake your whole body and shout out "your actin like a nut!" It works for me. You have to snap out of this world you were in, because she's no longer there. It's a loss cause, because it's one-sided. Don't even waste your time with the fantasies of her being there, because it will just keep you down. Talk to new people. Find distractions.

The hardest thing about moving on is not realizing that you can move on, but once you do you need to be optimistic for something better. You deserve better. You want a relationship where you and the girl share the same feelings--that's the only way relationships work. This couldn't have worked when she doesn't feel the same. You can do it. Just use the power of your mind, and put your heart on layaway for now.

Go ahead and cry today, but tomorrow is a new day. Find that backbone you once had and find someone who's actually worth your tears.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

its time to move on. you told how you felt n she just doesnt have feelings for you. dont waste your time on crying and being depressed over her. there are plenty of other girls out there. you should be happy for her, that shes found a guy that she truly loves. dont waste any more time on her. go out and meet someone new.....

SMILE!

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

wow , back to the the moon n just for her, I bet if ur mum tell's you go to th market,, Well i know ur answer,

Ok, listEN to Elvis song.. Love me tender or Madonna'

'DONT CRY FRO ARGENTINA'!!! to expnsive for the moon, cheaper in argentina!!!!

all the best

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

Similar to my situation, and yes it is VERY painful, I still am not completly over it either, I just duno..it was hard getting over her and she kept pushing it my face also till I just eventually blew, and what helped me is I been listening to CrossFade (so far away song) you should try it, it puts you in the mood where basically O well you know? The song is about how this guy changed and thought he was nothing without her, then he realilzed he changed and now he is looking back at her and singing this song and telling her that he has changed and now she will never see him now.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

ok this happen to my friend when she broke up with her boyfriend.

he is a selfish jerk and he went about his feeelings all the wrong ways.

respect her feelings and she will thank you for it.

relationships dont last forever and you should be there for her is hers ends

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

you know what bro what you got for her is real love,

but sometimes is best to let go her heart is taken and you cant do much about it but to move on thats all you can do if you love her and want for her to be happy you have to let her go and let her carry out her own life, and i know it hurts alot

but dont worry in time your heart will heal the best remedy for a broken heart is a new love. love is a ***** sometimes but you just gotta kepp your head up bro. let her go adn find someone else that doesnt take you for granted you got alot of love and am sure adn i guarantee it that theres some one out there for you you just gotta be patient...

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

You need to take a break. Just get yourself relaxed. You're in a transition, and they suck hardcore. Just give yourself time to let it go and decide when you want to start anew. There are no timetables for this sort of thing, you'll just have to ride it out. But remember, it ends when you say it ends, but no one can do that but you.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

Just shoot the guy and she will come crying on your shoulder. Or look for a new chick --- whichever is easier.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

You sound very sad and upset and you don't know what you should be doing with these emotions. Most importantly, give yourself time to grieve. You have lost someone whom you felt very deeply for and you will not get over this overnight.

It is important for you to not think that there is something wrong with you or that you are unlovable or defective in some way because this girl left you. You need to bear in mind that you cannot make someone love you. It is up to the other person whether or not they let you into their heart. Different people have different ideas about love and relationships and it is clear that this was the case with you and this girl. Because she is with someone else, you need to accept the fact that this is happened and that she considers this person to be right for her.

Do not beat yourself up and think negatively about yourself. The fact that you had a girlfriend and the way you articulated yourself in your question indicates that you are an intelligent, attractive, sensitive and good human being who is capable of love. Your heart is precious and it is up to you who you share it with.

Remember, there is no such thing as "the one"--- it all depends on time, place and situation. You will continue to go through life meeting great people, all of which could possibly be "the one" depending on the time and situation. Don't sell yourself short and remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

you need to try to relax this summer I know Hope you feel i still love him, it has been 5 years that i have loved him ever since but i cant talk to him cause he loves my BFF and now his moving away!!!!

so don't ever give up on love!!!!!!! but don't just cry your way out, its just a waste of time then be more romantic, while you still have a chance!!!! :(( not like me, but like i told you i will never give up i will look for him and wait even for a million years.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

whoa.

It just seems that you havent got over her yet.

You must let go, move on with your life and who knows? You may even find someone sweeter and more loving.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

tell her how you feel

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

Well,man i tihnk you should just really let her go, 1.if you explained to her your feelings and she wasn't even considerate enough to take them in or anything then she doesn't care for you as much as if she's actually said anything,she's moved on with another guy,and you must let her go,let her be,and pray for the wife that god has planned to bring you later on in life,and rest it in his hands to take care of it.

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

if you really love her, then wish the best for her or it is possessive!

you really need to know that she is no longer for you, you can have a better life, find one girl that is totally yours an your only, you are just being unwilling to let go thinking that SHE IS YOURS WILL NOT HELP AT ALL. she is what she is, and she belong to herself only!!!

wish you good luck!!!

;( I love her with all my heart, i cant stop crying !! plz help me :(?

awe.

wow, i never knew a guy can love a girl that much esp. as a teen.

i don't want to be mean but two words: move on?

there's plenty of fish in the sea.

here, i think these articles will sorta change your mood or atleast...help you:

1. http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-...

2. http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-Your-Fir...

3. http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-Depressi...

OH, AND I FOUND THIS ARTICLE THAT'S EXACTLY RIGHT FOR YOU:

-http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-a-Girl-T...

okay, now i'm finished researching for you....get well.

Myspace creative ideas?

my friend gave me the idea of putting an "i love comments" icon and below it puttin an arrow pointing to a comment box. That was very creative...are there any more ideas we can share that you know to make a myspace creative. Any idea would be welcome.

Myspace creative ideas?

accurate page counters (not trackers)

Image rollovers for friends pics

changing the contact links to go to blogs to hinder spam

different backgrounds for each table section

Div Overlays

Myspace creative ideas?

Make icons that promote those things you're into.

Myspace creative ideas?

try this: http://photobucket.com/

Need serious help please.Its a myspace problem.?

Well ive been talking to this girl on myspace lately right so she gave me her phone number and we start talking alot but she is so obsesed wit me. I mean she tells me 'i love you' and i dont know wat to do she wants to go out wit me sooooooo bad but heres the thing she lives in michigan and i live in DALLAS!! TEXAS. i dont want to tell her i cant talk to her anymore becaue she is very beautiful and sweet. I just dont do that online dating thingy. I talk to her on the phone. So please tell me wat i should do. PLEASE.

Need serious help please.Its a myspace problem.?

Well, no offense, but I think you should have seen something like this coming if you signed on with myspace. That being besides the point, I would suggest you both get webcams and Skype or something. If neither of you can drive that long of a distance, it's the best alternative to a physical relationship out there.

Need serious help please.Its a myspace problem.?

tell her its too far and u dont want to do a long distance relationship.

Need serious help please.Its a myspace problem.?

umm why are you gonna string her along if you dont like her? be a man and tell her the truth. i dont understand why thats so hard for men to tell a woman they arent interested. its better off for both of you in the long run anyway, so that she can find someone that isnt going to waste her time and youll find someone that is in your area.

Need serious help please.Its a myspace problem.?

tell her that there is no chance because you live so far apart and keep talking to her as a friend only.

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

I'm at a complete loss for a song for my myspace

but i know i want some good punk-type music

that's about love, and being together, and happy.

if not punk/rock/emo, then any good love songs

but not too much classical music though.

Thanks, a lot. [:

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

"Suspension" by Mae =]

http://myspace.com/mae

Lyrics:

"Lately I'm alright

And lately I'm not scared

I've figured out

That what you do to me feels like

I'm floating on air

I don't need to know right now

All I know is I believe

In the very thing that got us here

And now I can't leave

Say anything, but say what you mean

'cause I'm caught in suspension

Now,

I'm wanting this for sure

And I'll beg for nothing more

I'll plan all day and drive all night

You'll love what's in store

I can't seem to stop this now

Even if it's not so clear

And I'll take what I can get

If you want me here

Say anything, but say what you mean.

When you whisper you want this

Your eyes tell the same

We are gaining speed

I can barely breathe

'cause I'm caught in suspension

It's enough for me to get excited

It's enough for me to feel whoa"

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

blue and yellow by the used is really good

my beautiful rescue by this providence is really good

thunder by boys like girls

such great heights by the postal service

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

have you tried tegan and sara? I don't know how emo/punk they are but I think tthey are awesome =]

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

A song by a band called All Time Low. Its called Six feet under the stars. Its a really good song [kinda about love] check it out.

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

Hanging By a Moment - Lifehouse

Elastic - Outspoken

Good Enough - Evanescence

Caught in the Rain - Revis

For You - The Calling

they're all great songs!

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

I'm like a lawer with the way im always trying to get you off (me and you)-Fall Out Boy

Anything by The Academy is... (everything we had, same blood, seed etc.)

the truth about heaven-Armor For Sleep

run to you-The Rocket Summer

A lot of stuff by Tegan and Sara i cant think of anything off the top of my head

Tiger Lily-The Matches

those are al love-ish songs

feel free to email

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

lovesong by the cure

one of the best songs ever, and certainly one of the best love songs.

more post-punk, but. awesome nonetheless.

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

hey there delilah-plain white tees.

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

The first punk song to enter the UK charts was 'New Rose' by the Damned. I think it's quite a good love song, and a real punk classic too:

"..... I got a new rose I got her good

Guess I knew that I always would

I can't stop to mess around

I got a brand new rose in town

I never thought this could happen to me

This is strange why should it be

I don't deserve somebody this great

I'd better go or it'll be too late ...."

If you don't like that one still thinking about the Damned what about 'Love Song' the first track on 'Machine Gun Etiquette'.

What are some good love songs, more like the punk/rock/emo genre?

How about Demolition Lovers by MCR.

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

I wrote this for a girl a while back. she tore my heart in two, but i guess thats life, right. Oh well. I'm going to post this on my poetry blog but i need to know if it's good enough yet. If you want to see some of my poetry, check out my blog at www.myspace.com/curiouscesar

I'll be posting more later this week for those who want to read more.

Thanks, Cesar

There are things that live inside of me,

that make me hide my thoughts.

They darken my interior

with things that were once lost.

Things that you dont even know,

these things are hard to explain.

In short they never wanted me,

They remind me every day.

My life has been a vicious battle

full of sorrow, defeat and pain.

But then you came into my life,

i knew my life was bound to change.

So now I'm stuck with hiding this,

this feeling that burns so much.

I wish that I could tell you that

I'm missin you my love.

I really want to be with you ,

enjoy your sweet caress.

To hold you in my loving arms,

Be rid of all this loneliness.

Then gaze into those gleaming eyes,

They're sparkling green abyss.

And then I'll hold you, pull you close,

And taste your lips. My first true kiss.

But this, my one and only wish

i have to hide from you.

I'm just afraid that you might say

I'm not the one for you.

But hopefully you'll read this note

and maybe understand me.

I just hope that its not too late.

I hope your not mad at me.

And someday you may realize

that what I feel is real.

And that I'll love you so much more

than the rabbi's son ever will.

I love you.

And thats as real as it gets.

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

Hey Cesar! I think you are a great talent indeed

(I'm starring your question to get you some more exposure! We poets can use all the help we can get!)

The way it is, she will definately understand that you have deep emotions for her and that you put time and effort into the words you wrote.....however, for maximum impact you might want to make it a little more fluid in a couple areas....

The second verse is a little confusing....I didn't understand who the "they" was in that verse....

Over all, I think you did a fantastic job, but you might just need to re-arrange the order of your verses.....

LEt her know immediately in the poem that you are expressing your hidden thoght because you have something to share with her.....that way she won't rush though it, but rather, savor it.

Great Job, keep it up!

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

Thumbs up

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

It's very creative!!! If I were you, I would try to make it rhyme more, but other than that, it's very beautiful. I'd love for someone to write me something like that.

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

WOW...very good.I write poems myself but this hun is something!!keep it going..

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

I love it. And I think it is great that you feel that way about another. It is so hard these days to find true love. And I wish you all the best in finding yours.

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

This is very good poem...u could win some money.

http://www.poetry.com

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

I think your poem was sooooo sweet.Just the thought of writing a poem for her should have made her happy.I know I would be!

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

nice... i like it

Please read this love poem i wrote.?

Nice Poem, very heartfelt. Well the only constructive criticism I can offer is that it almost lets us know the story, but not quite. Hope that doesn't sound rude I liked it a lot , just found myself asking questions like Did she ever know he loved her , why did she leave , did he not tell her his feelings and she moved on ....

and just so you get a chance to fire back , here is one of mine

New Acquaintances

The day that you left me,

I felt so all alone.

But quickly new Acquaintances,

made their presence known.

Pain, he came into my heart

promising to stay

I've felt his aching presence

each and every day.

Grief also came to me

he lingers in my eyes

his tears fall for all to see

him I can't disguise

Torture and Torment

brothers that joined the team

they went deep inside my soul

where they can be unseen

The day that you left me

you left me not alone

but you took Joy and Happiness

the others took their home.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

I met this guy through myspace about 2 and a half years ago. At the time he had a girlfriend so what we had i would say it was a deep friendship. He came to me about his problems for advice and vice versa. We talked like EVERYDAY about EVERYTHING. About a year after really talking he told me that he loved me and i felt the same way. he was still with his gf but they were really going through it. Now two and half years later we finally meet. The day of his birthday (a friday in dec,2007) we spent the entire day together and he spent the night (no sex). The whole day was wonderful and it felt like we've been hanging out forever. Now in jan.2008 we are talking about getting married (in the future but soon) we are planning on getting an apt together within this year (hopefully before the summer hits) I really love him and I know that he loves me too, but my mom is so certain that we don't know what love is because we are young (I'm 21 he is 22) and we've only been hanging out for 3 weeks

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

0f course you can.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

No, it is more like infatuation.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

yes you can love someone in this situation.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

i believe you can love someone after knowing them for five minutes!! love at first sight!!!

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

i think so but dont get ahead of urself ok!

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

two and a half years????? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

most people fall in love after 2 and a half weeks.....

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

I suggest take it slow, see where it goes.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Move in and see how things go. Take it slowly, though. Living with someone really helps you see what things are going to be like.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

i know people that met on myspace and made it work. If you love eachother, then you love eachother.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

dont rush things but , i think u can love someone who u met thro the net just be sure that YOU TRULLY love him spend some more time , i dont blame your mom shes worried for your future but take a lil bit time marrige wont run away !!!!

you know? hang out more with him maybe

live with him for a while? together

no marrige jus see how u live together ina house u know if u like it go for it !

good luck girl

hope it all works out!

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Yes, you can. Of course, it can't be complete until you are together in person for awhile, because there are many things that come up at that time (besides sex) which are not apparent in phone calls and in the short span of time you have been together..On the other hand, I have known many 50+ year marriages that started out when the couples were in their teens and early 20s.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

yeah actually you can....you can fall in love with someone in a few weeks (which is really hard to know though, just because you do doesnt mean you'd know it............)

but yeah defiantly

sounds sweet actually

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Can you? Yes.

And whether you make it as a couple has a lot to do with how 'real' the conversations have been.

Have you talked about the hard stuff? What about your requirements for a mate; the deal-breaker stuff? Have you talked about values and goals? Have you talked frankly about money, kids, careers, where to live?

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Yes, I think it's possible. I caught strong feelings for a guy I was chatting with a couple of years ago but unfortunately, when we met, I didn't feel the spark. I just wasn't physically attracted to him but the feelings weren't mutual. I felt bad but I had to be honest with him. I hope you have a happy ending. :)

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Love comes in many funny forms. Besides, since you've been talking for a couple years, surely you know a lot about each other. I wish you the best of luck and happiness.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

if you really feel the love and like you know him go for it but take it slower than usual to avoid it schemed over hun

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

you guys are moving to fast/ slow it down, you skipped the hole relationship and just went right to the moving in together and blah blah blah, you guys could be in love, love doesnt have a time were it kicks in or a place where it kicks in, love is love and it is always their at different times and different places of your life you just gotta slow down give it a few months/ dont make your first marriage something you regret you know/

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

I think you should wait another two and a half years. Just to be sure.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Most of your time getting to know each other was online. What you need to do is spend time together. I think you need more than 3 weeks to decide that you are still compatible when you are physically with this person.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

honestly, it probably is more infatuation, but if you do care for him and you think you're both ready, then there's nothing wrong with getting married while being infatuated. i did and it's great. all marriages take work and that's the same for people who've been dating for 10 years or 10 days. if you feel it's right and he feels it's right, then do what your heart says and good luck. most important thing to remember about marriage tho: it's going to be hard. you two WILL say things you don't mean and hear things you won't like, but in the end you have to work hard over and over to stay together. good luck and enjoy

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

That's great! You've actually know him for 2 1/2 years. Hang out a little longer to see how it goes before you move in together. Good luck.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

I think you are moving to fast with this guy, so is this other girl out of the picture. i would take it slowly as continue to be friends, I would put the marriage talking off until we get to know each other better.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

dont ONLY 3 weeks???

usualy 3 weeks isnt enough to trust fully a g/f / b/f

it could be a trap of some kind

...let more time...the apt yea go for it...but dont get married...get to kno him first

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

u have a myspace realtionship..thats normal now a days..no one can tell u what real love is..u are the judge of that..do what u feel is best but take some more time to get to know him outside of the internet..even in face to face realtionship when u move in with someone they flip the script on you so be carefull and take it slow..make sure he doesnt have a gf either..alot of guys do that ..chat it up with some girl on myspace and have a gf on the side...hope it works out...

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

it is very possible to love someone that you have only talked to over the phone/internet/letters....but you need to spend way more time with him then just tha one time, b/c you will never truly know a person until you spend time with them daily....just don't jump into it, b/c then things are bound to go wrong. But keep it simple and on a friends level, and don't be easy....you can still tell him that u love him, but don't go and shack up with him until you truly know him face to face for at least 6 months.

Good Luck To You!

And BTW I'm Not Just Giving You Advice That I Haven't Dealt With.

I Was With A Guy Over The Internet For 5 Years. And We Broke Up Because He Was Completely Different Face To Face.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

I don't think so. I think that you really have to be around someone IN PERSON before you can really know them. Face it, on the internet, we all present the best versions of ourselves, not our true selves. Twenty-one is very young but I wouldn't say it is too young in all cases. However, your mom certainly knows you a lot better than anyone here does and she is certainly only looking out for your best interests. Truly, what is the hurry? Get to know one another before you make a lifetime committment and ABSOLUTELY DO NOT move in together before you are married. It is a recipe for disaster once you are married.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

No one can tell you how you feel but yourselves. Sounds like you guys have developed a pretty deep relationship. I think more often people mistake a physical connection (ie great sex) with love. It's a different way that you have gone about getting together, but I think it's great that you really got to know each other first.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

I would normally say no, but last year I met someone, and a week later we were already dating. Ever since, we have been spending every night with each other, he finally brought his dirty laundry to my place, so I think it is official now, we are living together. We are expecting our first child, so who am I to say it can't be love?? Go for it, you will never find out until you give it a shot. It might not work, but you don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what it might've been like, right?

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

in reality you've only seen each other physically for 3 weeks, but really have known each other for a while. I believe that it is love that you are feeling, you felt this way even before you actually met him so its not just lust. I think you should listen to your heart and tell your mother that it is your future not hers and if you are making a mistake then you will learn, mistakes are a blessing in disguise.. and she will eventually get over it.

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

First of all, your mom is wrong on this one sister. It's usually the older people in this world who forget what love was; it's not the younger people who don't know what love is.

I think after talking to this guy for so long, you probably have a good idea of what his personality is like. It sounds like you are not rushing into this, but you are whole-heartedly pursuing the next step(s). I see nothing wrong with that. Now that you've met, you're probably more thrilled because of all of your conversations. It's not like you just ran into this guy three weeks ago. So to answer your question, yes, I do think it's possible for you to be in love at this point.

Go for it, full steam ahead!

-BD

Can you really love someone that you've only talked to for two and a half years????

Yes, I think it's possible b/c that's how it kinda happened with the love of my life but we didn't meet on myspace. Listen to your heart only u know what u feel and what u want to do. Our parents are here for advice but the final decision is ours. GOOD LUCK!!

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

WELL I WENT ON HIS MYSPACE AND I SAW A COUPLE OF COMMENTS FROM ANOTHER GIRL AND THEY SAY LIKE I LOVE YOU TONY AND I LOVE YOU MORE THEN ANY ONE!!!

AND IM GOING TO CONFRONT HIM TODAY....BUT IF HE IS CHEATING ON ME I DONT KNOW IF I COULD BREAK-UP WITH HIM BECAUSE I REALLY DO LOVE HIM HE IS THE FIRST GUY I EVER LOVED I DONT KNOW WAT OT DO I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

PLEASE HELP!!!

-AMBER

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

You should send the girl a message and ask her why she's leaving those comments on your boyfriends page because it's making you uncomfortable.

Then if she claims to have some type of relationship with him - you should confront your boyfriend. If it is true and he is cheating on you - PLEASE find the strength to leave him. He will only do it again if you let him get away with it. If you're meant to be you will come back together maybe after he's matured - but you're only setting yourself up for repeated heartbreak if you stay with him.

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

If he did cheat, it doesn't matter if you love him or not. What matters is that he obviously does not love you. If he's the first guy you ever loved, don't worry- there will be plenty more! Drop the bastard like a bad habit!

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

talk to him 1st then make your chose!

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

I've dated 3 Tony's and an Antonio and they're all liars! There must be something in that name! Usually 99% of the time if a GF suspects her BF of cheating they're right.

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

ok look coming from a guy he might not b cheating on u i got a lot friends dat r girls and they tell me they love me but i think of it as a sign of how much they care bout me ...just ask yourself this.... does he love u? if he does u got nothin 2 worry bout

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

MY SPACE, ISN'T TO BE TAKEN SERIOUS ((AT LEAST I DON'T)) ITS JUST FOR FUN... IF YOU THINK HE MAY BE CHEATING %26amp;%26amp; THINK ITS BECAUSE OF MYSPACE, THEN LET HIM KNOW THAT. SUGGEST HIM TAKING HIS PROFILE OF MYSPACE TO RESOLVE THE PROBLEM!

Is my first love tony cheating on me????

I know this will be hard but I had to do it too! talk him in to giving you his password. say you want to do his background over for him and he can change it back if he wants.

I did that, and now, I control his friends on there and everything.

Us women are verry strong when it comes to realationships. We can manipulate the men into doing what ever we want with out them knowing.

How do i find out who this myspace fake really is?

ok theres this person on myspace who is pretending to be a girl and i know its a fake becuase "she" hid her friends list, so when i used to url trick to look at "her" friends list all i saw was guys from my school. he is pretending to be this hot girl from our town and is talking to all the guys and getting them to talk to her and stuff but im positive that its someone that i know because he tried to trick me. i need to find out who this is... is there a way to find out what his email address is for that myspace, or do you have any ideas of what i can do to find out who this is because hes been doing this for months and i would love to confront him with this

How do i find out who this myspace fake really is?

you create a fake account make a couple of fake friends and then send this "fake person" a friend request and start asking him/her questions or flirt

How do i find out who this myspace fake really is?

Hahaha... XD Oh my gosh... stupid people and their fake accounts... it makes me laugh.

Unfortunately, there's no way to find out the email address. =[ If there WAS a way, MySpace would be a fiasco! O_O Haha.

Um... if you wanna confront the guy about it, go ahead! I'D do it if I were you! XD

Uh... I'm not sure if I answered your question... but ya! =D

How do i find out who this myspace fake really is?

did you read about the 14 year old girl who hung herself because she was rejected by a fake boy. it was really someones parents doing that to her. if you belive that this guy is prentending to be a girl then report it. it is your duty

How do i find out who this myspace fake really is?

if you know who this person is, go and tell a teacher at your school. If you don't know, report them to MySpace and tell them you have reason to believe they are a fake and let them deal with it.

Is it possible to fall in love over instant messaging with someone you met online?

i met this beautiful girl (i saw her myspace) online and i like her a real lot. Is it possible to feel real love for someone over the internet? She lives too far away from me but we've planned to meet up one day. I think internet relationships let you see more of the person and not just their looks. What do you think?

Is it possible to fall in love over instant messaging with someone you met online?

Is it possible? Sure. Is it likely? Probably not. Infatuation is probably more the case. The fact is, while in some ways you may feel an attraction for someone and you may feel like you're learning a side of someone you may not normally see if you just met in person first, you still can't be sure you're getting to know that person for who she is.

First, when you're online, whether it's myspace or IM, you can take a little time to formulate your answers, you don't have the pressure of in person interaction, etc. etc. I'm not saying that she's not being herself with you, but there's that potential that she may be bringing out a side of her that maybe doesn't come out a lot in real life. And if you eventually hope to have a relationship with her in person, then this could be a problem as the part of her that you love or enjoy may not be as prominant anymore.

But more importantly, you can never judge in person chemistry with someone over the internet. What could be great chemistry online could not translate in person. I've met two people from myspace, one of whom we had terrible in-person chemistry and one who eventually became my girlfriend. So you just never know.

My advice is to take your time and don't let yourself fall too much for her until you guys meet. And you may also want to consider the reality of whether this thing between you two could in reality ever work out. As in, is one of you willing to move for the other person? Are you both even looking for anyting that serious? If not, just keep it friendly for the meantime.

But to answer your main question, it's probably closer to having a crush or an infatuation. Real love I think takes something more.

Is it possible to fall in love over instant messaging with someone you met online?

No, I think you can get to like them as a person, but for me, love is more about the chemistry you have with that person and how you feel around them, which can only be discovered by spending time with them in person.

Is it possible to fall in love over instant messaging with someone you met online?

no. I think you need to be in that person's presence and to spend true quality time with them for a while until you relize you're in love. Would you die for this person?

Is it possible to fall in love over instant messaging with someone you met online?

I think you sound very sweet, but also very naive. Even people who aren't trying to create a fake persona (and there are plenty of those folks out there) act differently online than they do in real life - some are more confident, some take more time to think before they contribute to the conversation, some don't choose to share certain aspects of their lives because they don't see them as relevant to the person they're IMing. Good luck with your girl, but keep your eyes wide open, and don't be surprised if she's different than you expected if you finally do get to meet her.

Is it possible to fall in love over instant messaging with someone you met online?

i use to chat with this guy I met on yahoo pool and we chatted everyday for about 4 years.. finally we met and we both knew we were in love with each other... i say it's really possible.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Before my husband %26amp; I became married %26amp; became a couple, he had a friend who always socialized with because usually her boyfriend was a homebody or didn't want to go out. This friend of his was somewhat close because they had a lot of fun together. When I came along my husband %26amp; I spent so much time together then came in love. She texted him one day saying, "that ***** has you on lock lol". That pissed me off because I had to tell him to defend me. He's a nice guy so I couldn't imagine him telling her off for trying to diss me. In my opinion, she was mad because I "took her friend away" from her. I never once bad mouthed her because I didn't know her to do so. But she did it to me. So my husbad cut off their friendship. Its been about 6 months since she was around. Then last night while my husband was checking his myspace, she sent him a friend request. I told him I didn't care to add her. I do though. I noticed that he added her. I'm kinda hurt. Maybe jealous. Am I wrong to feel this?

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

In my opinion, anyone who has a myspace is looking for something or someone. It's a personal connection to "friends" that allows people their own "personal hiding space". I don't like myspace at all. I use to have an account, but really, what do yo need it for other than to stay in contact with old friends? Why does he want to stay in contact with her? He's married now, and should just need/want you. I asked my hubby to close his myspace account. He did, but then asked to open it again, which I let him do, but his only friends are me and his sister that he never gets a chance to talk to. Your spouse should do the same, in my opinion.

I don't think you're overreacting at all. You have every right to censor friends, but you must be aware of the consequences with such censorship. If you don't honestly talk about it with him, he may freak out, or go behind your back. Just remember, honesty is the best policy. Talk to him about your feelings.

I've been married only 10 years to my spouse. I know him like the back of my hand now, and can tell when he's lieing. You need to learn the same if you don't know already. THEN talk to him about it. Good luck.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

YES

i just add as many people as possible

and let me add you and him!

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Grow up will ya.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

i shouldn't worry about it. talk to your husband and ask him to delete, but he has a right to be friends with anyone he wants

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Your not wrong your husband is . He should not have added her

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

sorry

i didn't read all of your question

i find it hard to write big blocks of writing without paragraphs

but from the title i'd say

myspace

people over react about it sometimes

its meant to be a thing for friends and meeting new people

some people get way too bothered about it

:) x

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Without real proof it's hard to say. Without Trust there's no real relationship for you anymore. I've been here (with the protests over 'innocent' emails (and better: "that one was spam"). Watch out if he becomes more obsessed with 'checking' the computer when you're busy elsewhere.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Don't be hard on yourself.

If your husband knows what he's got then he should know he's lucky to have someone to care about him as much as you do.

You have every right to be a little concerned.

But don't let it interfere with your relationship.

Just enjoy what you have and be thankful for it.

Hope this was helpful. (:

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

You aren't wrong to be mad, but you made a mistake when you told him it was okay. Don't force him to be a mind-reader.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

It sound like a good natured joke to me. I used to say that to a guy friend of mine all in fun. That is sort of like telling a bride/groom "how does it feel to strap on the old ball and chain?'. I think maybe you have just sent your instincts into overdrive and have overreacted just a bit. Calm down, chill out and know that he loves you and comes home to you every day. My husband and I were able to maintain opposite sex friendships throughout our marriage because we loved each other unequivically and never placed ourselves in a cheating position with others because we went everywhere together. Being too overbearing and sensitive to the life he had before you could push him away.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

no, you're totally in the right here. your husband still wants to be friends with her, and there is little you can do to stop this, but make it clear that she needs to accept that you ain't going nowhere, and that she cannot ever have a hold over him. Talk to your husband, and hit the problem directly. xx

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Threaten to cut of something else from his body if he doesn't tell that other woman to get lost.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

oh jeez! myspace is for people in high school first of all and secendly WAKE UP SHES TRYING TO STEAL YOUR MAN and he sounds like such a dummy that he would let it happen without noticing it,he dont need no close girl thats a friend that is you!!!especially if shes mouthing off about you,if he had respect for you he would quit that ***** just for that!i have a white bf who has mostly white friends some of which dont like black people but best believe he doesnt let them say anything about me!so stand up and lay the line down before they end up sleeping together or some ****!

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Well you should be able to tell your husband the truth about how you feel. On the other hand, you don't want him to feel as though you're running his life (and you def. don't want him to start thinking that other girl is right about you!).

I suggest you tell him, you really don't mind if they are myspace friends, but that you still feel uncomfortable about the way she used to talk about you. Tell him you'd really appreciate it if he would take her off his myspace if she starts up the badmouthing again. Maybe now that you two are married she realizes you are going to be a part of his life, and there's nothing she can do about it, so she has changed her ways...

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Tell your husband you trust him. Tell yourself that you trust him. You said that it was alright to add her. If it bothers you than talk to your husband and explain why you are upset. Men can't read us as well as we like. I am still trying to get my husband used to me after 7 years of marriage. The main thing is to communicate, if you don't be honest with your feelings than how are you guys supposed to know how eachother truely feels about something. Also is does help to explain nicely to his friend that it really bothered you when she made that comment about you and that you would appreciate it if in the future she was more respectful towards you like you have been for her.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Congratulations to your husband for cutting off the friendship with this girl to preserve his relationship with you. Why did you husband add her? I would be jealous and I don't feel you are wrong for feeling the way you do. She has a lot of nerve contacting him. You need to talk to your husband about this. In my opinion, renewing communication with this woman opens the door for trouble in your marriage. Better to nip it now.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

I wouldn't dismiss anything from your mind, but I'd let up a bit. You should voice you're true opinion to him, maybe he thought "hey, I'd look more popular with another friend on my page" or something harmless.

I think their friendship is harmless because he cut her off for 6 months at your simple request. So it's like he threw her away because she offended you, his wife, that he loves.

She sounds like a *****, but she probably IS jealous that you stole her friend.. in all honesty, he sounds like a great guy!

Trust is a very big building block in relationships. If you start making false accusations, it could lead him to feel like he's "on lock" which would probably only push him closer to her.

My boyfriend has his ex added on his myspace. It's one thing to tell him not to leave the toilet seat up, but to tell him who he can and can't communicate with via e-mail is a bit extreme. Just make sure he isn't checking the computer contantly. My boyfriend checks his myspace like once every 3 weeks- so I know she isn't a main priority.

Good luck! Just keep you're eye out. Maybe visit his page and read the comments she leaves him. I think this is a great way you can "spy" and see if anything is going on. If she's trash talking you thru his comments, BRING IT UP TO HIM.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

no, you're not wrong to be mad. i would've confronted her myself after reading such a message. he should have more respect for you.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

I have a lot of friends who I have observed talk that gibberish about just friends and everyone of them if they didn't end up sleeping with the person, was sure trying to. I don't know about you, but me and my husband when we took our marriage vows, we said forsaking all others. I had some male friends that made my husband feel uncomfortable, no problem, they became history because I made the vow. I expect him to do the same for me. He shouldn't have a friend who means so much to him that he is willing to hurt your feelings for.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

No you are not and you should tell your husband clearly what you feel don't miss communicate with the person you have to spend your life with, be very clear and open to each other about your feelings.....never hide what you feel cuz one day you might just explode %26amp; your relationship will take the toll. Create a strong bond between you two which no third person relevant or irrelevant can affect.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

in my opinion if you are married you have no business having a myspace, facebook or any other page where you can network with "friend". that's crap. tell him to get rid of the myspace page. that's a way for people to cheat on the side. your husband sounds sweet b/c he at least asked you first but i still think it's wrong for married people to have myspace pages.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

You told him to add her and now you want to complain.I would've said hell no.You can't tell them one thing and mean another.You did it to yourself when you let him add her.Deal honey,or tell him you really didn't want to add her.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

I wouldn't like it either but not b/c they were once friends but b/c she said something negative about you to him. They were supposedly "just friends" and with that comes the understanding that one of them will one day find a girlfriend/boyfriend so she had to know that someday he would be someone nice like you.

I think friendships can be complicated sometimes though so have some grace with her. When my friends met their spouses, I was a little hurt b/c it meant that we wouldn't be spending much time together. After a while, you get used to it and accept it. She was having trouble doing that. Remember, she is the one with the problem not you or your husband.

Just remember that you and your husband are MARRIED and you have a bond that is more important than that friendship. Keep loving your husband, making memories and know that his friend is not going to affect what you have together.

Have you thought about contacting her yourself and letting her see what a nice person you are? Maybe she just needs you to reach out to her and you can let her see how wonderful you really are. Just a thought.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

You're not wrong...he is. I don't personally think it's right to have friends of the opposite sex when in a commited relationship/marriage. It just causes too many problems. No friend is more important than your partner/spouse/family.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

MySpace is a place for singles and a disastrous website for marriages! Just stay off the site and you wouldn't have these issues.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

yes you told him he could and now you're getting mad at him when he did. honestly it's been 6 months.forgive,forget, and read this ahttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

well you told him that you didnt care. now you say you do. you cant get mad at him for adding her, you can only be mad at your self for not speaking the truth to him. if it bothers you that bad, tell him. ask him to take her off...

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

I can't even understand why you took that text message as a reason to end their friendship at all. It sounds like it was a joke that expressed the fact that she misses their friendship... I see nothing to react to at THAT point... so communicating on myspace is no big deal either.

There is nothing wrong with your FEELINGS... but feelings aren't facts.... being jealous doesn't mean you have to react....

it just means that you have a feeling to deal with.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

Your not wrong to feel that way. This woman can be a threat to your marriage only if you and your husband let her.

Their "friendship" on Myspace (and I use the term friendship loosely) can only become a threat to your marriage if you and your husband let it.

His adding her as a friend on Myspace is nothing. Most people have hundreds of "friends" on Myspace that they don't know and do not / have not interacted with.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

I think you're making too big a deal over this.

If she wasn't constantly trying to undermine you, I think you overreacted way back when to a text message. That comment, if it was not a regular occurrance, is something MANY guys' friends would say. If that was all it was, it wasn't worth demanding that he "defend you" or that he cut off a friendship with her. And regardless of what you say about how you never once bad-mouthed her, i'm guessing that at some point in the whole demanding he defend you fiasco, you said some pretty unflattering things about her.

But regardless of all that, if you're going to play little games, telling him you don't care if he does something, then he does, you have no right to be all upset about it if he does something YOU said didn't bother you.

Am I overreacting about MySpace??

If she is respectful to you I wouldn't worry. If she is bad mouthing you all over the place and/or flirting or being too friendly to your husband I would kindly ask him to understand your point and remove her...myspace is trouble though for some...

Myspace scam ?

i am new on myspace and got this message the other day is it some con ? i think so myself ! read below-thanks !

Hi! Are you very popular online? My best friend and I were checking profiles for single guys online and saw yours. I hope you're available, because she's interested in meeting up with you She doesn't have an account on this site and not very comfortable online She's a student and visiting me from outside the USA. She'd love to know more about you and lives not too far from you. I've done my part now it's up to you. You can contact her direclty at: sarah_sullivan4556 at yahoo. She's uber-smart, speaks many languages and is very very sexy - she's much thinner than I and much healthier overall. Thanks and have a wonderful day

Myspace scam ?

It's SPAM.

If you want to fight back for having tricked you into viewing their fake page, click on the link at the bottom of their page called "Report Abuse" and MySpace will delete their account.

Myspace scam ?

Sounds like a genuine offer to me. Its your lucky day go for it

Myspace scam ?

Ummm...yeah. If it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is a scam.

Myspace scam ?

are you serious? SCAM

Myspace scam ?

nooo its spam alot of people get those on their pages somebody had their page hacked and is posting spam on your page

Myspace scam ?

Sounds like a scam to me. (No offense to you).

Myspace scam ?

If you send an email to that yahoo address, you're in for a ton of spam.

Myspace scam ?

It's only on line dating go for it. Not like they are requesting money or anything.

Myspace scam ?

This Is A Scam! Don't believe anything like this. Anything that says "My best friend and I were" is fake. It is also fake if it has an ID number such as BH33703, or it says "Body:" at the beginning. None of these messages or comments on MySpace are real.They are all scams designed to get your money and/or personal info.

Myspace scam ?

It's an ad bot, now that you have opened it there may be some ad spy ware in your myspace code, look in the edit your profile areas for any code you didn't put there, any new friends in your list you didn't add. Then make sure you change your password ASAP.

Myspace scam ?

I wouldn't do it.

And to prevent these things from happening again, you should set your profile to private.

Just go to account settings from your home page, privacy settings, and click "my friends only." Also, you can set your myspace so that when someone tries to send you a friend request, they have to put in your last name or your email.

To do this, (it's still on the privacy settings page) just click "Friend Requests: Require Email or Last name."

Myspace scam ?

They have said it before, it has SCAM written all around it. BTW, for your own safety, you shouldn't put your address on your MySpace, I'm guessing you have it there, if not how does this girl who you don't know and her foreign hot/ultra-smart near perfect friend know where you're located.

Myspace scam ?

Spam... Dont answer back- its not a good idea. Somone did that to me once!

Myspace scam ?

Dude

You are soooo lucky. I never get cool offers like that.

Myspace scam ?

sounds like a scam

Myspace scam ?

my husband has got those before,and he gets pissed.he just tells the person i am married leave me alone,scam or not if you gotta look for people like that the girl is probably not that good looking

Myspace scam ?

Sounds like you're being set-up for something, and in the long run you'll have to pay more than its worth.

I suggest you trash it and forget it.

Myspace scam ?

yes its definetly spam. when ur profile is set to male u'll get lots of those. When u get one look at one of there profiles and then another one. they're almost exactly alike!!

Myspace scam ?

I had a similar message, it's a scam of some kind, just read the message I got -

Hey there! So what kind of girls are you looking for? Not that it matters, because I have the perfect girl for you! I have a friend in from out of town and she wants to hook up. She doesn't have her own account on this site. So she's using mine to meet up with some guys. You can contact her at s_foster9572@yahoo. She's beautiful, magnetic and sweet. Don't be shy, write her an email!

It was from someone called Sophie.

Where can i find the myspace profile of a girl named melinda leeson??

my ex girlfriend melinda was on my myspace but someone stole my old one and now i cant find hers with my old one i know that her pic is with her with a red hat and her name is like " i love u baby" so please find her for me whoever does gets best answer... this is important to me!

Where can i find the myspace profile of a girl named melinda leeson??

you want people to help you stalk your x girlfriend, i dont think that would make her very happy

Where can i find the myspace profile of a girl named melinda leeson??

go to search if you kno her email than go to myspace.com/ ???whatever her thing is.

Where can i find the myspace profile of a girl named melinda leeson??

Happy stalking

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus...