Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

I HAVE KNOWN MY EX BOYFRIEND SINCE THE 6TH GRADE (10 YEARS)! WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER MANY TIMES, AND USUALLY THE CAUSE OF OUR BREAK UP WAS BECAUSE WE LIVED FAR AWAY FROM EACHOTHER AND OUR GRANDPARENTS COULDNT TRANSPORT US FROM EACHOTHERS HOUSE! WELL THE LAST TIME WE WERE TOGETHER 4 YEARS AGO I MESSED UP AND DID SOMETHING BAD TO HIM AND WE BROKE UP! WELL HE FOUND ME ON MYSPACE 4 MONTHS AGO AND WANTS TO BE WITH ME AGAIN. HE TELLS ME THAT IM HIS ONE TRUE LOVE AND HONESTLY I FEEL THE SAME WAY! WELL HERES THE BIG PROBLEM, IM MARRIED TO ANOTHER MAN AND THE FATHER OF MY SON! WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A YEAR NOW AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS. NOW MY ISSUE IS, I DONT WANT TO LET MY MARRIAGE FAIL! BUT IM SO IN LOVE WITH MY EX. I DONT KNOW WHAT THE HELL TO DO!? I FEEL AS IF I DONT LOVE MY HUSBAND AS MUCH AS I DID A YEAR AGO BUT ALL AT ONCE I DONT WANT TO HURT HIM! THEY BOTH SAY THAT THEY LOVE ME BUT SOMETHING TELLS ME I NEED TO BE WITH MY EX... WHAT DO I DO?????

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

Typical woman. Make up your mind what you want to do. Your husband knows you're going to leave sometime, all women do. If you want the boyfriend, go. God, do all women think their dramas are the most important thing on earth?

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

Don't be silly.

You're settled, you have a family, you can't just walk away from it to go into another man's arms.

What about this little buddy, what about this man you exchanged vows with, to respect, honour and cherish till death do you part? Did you mean that?

It's time to grow up and let bygones be bygones.

You have responsibilities and that was a choice, it's not like you were forced into it.

Give your marriage a chance.

Right now, you sound unsettled, like a teenager, and on the brink of making the biggest mistake of your life.

Let him go.

Good luck.

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

You should have never been your exe's friend on myspace. That was the past and you SHOULD have moved on. You are selfish and a prick. To jepordize what you have now is so stupid. I don't care what kind of attachment you have with your ex. You are ptiful person and just use people. Your ex is dumb for wanting you back, and your husband and CHILD are running around clueless.

What is great is that all of this will blow up in your face soon and you will deserve every bit of fallout that occurs because of you dumb behavior. You are being unfair to your family, but what I say won't register because you have already made up your mind. YOU WILL THROW AWAY YOUR MARRIAGE AND FAMILY!!!! YOU HAVE ALREADY PROVEN YOU ARE A LYING SNAKE AND A WORTHLESS PERSON TO BE AROUND! If you have any sense still left then you will never talk with your ex again and go and love you family and forget this stupid episode!

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

The grass is always greener on the otherside. If you were meant to be together you would be. Feelings for your ex will always be there, it is your decision what to do with "those feelings." First, figure out why you married the man you are with and had a child........out of love?? or because you did not want to be lonely, didn't think you would find anyone else? Be true to yourself and then you can honestly take steps to end a relationship before you begin another one. Just remember, that you will always wonder "what if" and sometimes it is better to leave it alone.

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

You know what u need to do but its opposed to what u want to do. Marriage isnt something to be taken lightly. You should have thought about it seriously before saying yes and especially before bringing another person into the mix. You made your bed now lie in it. If your ex loved u he wouldnt put what he wants above your sons and breaking up a happy family. If he loved u he would leave u to try and have a happy life instead of putting u into a position of having to choose. Your a mother and a wife now not a child. You will do what u want however weigh carefully the consequences of your actions.

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

Your married and have a child. You need to focus on your comittment. The ex thing is a fantasy, if you ruin your marriage eventually you will feel so bad for what you have done to your child it will likely ruin your relationship with your ex and you will be alone with a child.

Remember, your thing wiht your ex is a selfish fantasy, you are married and have a child, are you really that selfish of a person. Commit yourself to your marriage and child and don't indulge in foolish fantasies. It may not even be love you feel for him, and it's wrong of him to interefere with a woman who is married with a child. How do you want your child to be when he grows up? Think about it more seriously. You are playing with an atomic bomb here.

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

choose wisely

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

tell your husband everything I am sure he will help you over the issue

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

The grass is greener where ever you water it!

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

Is Nicky Poo your husband or your ex?

You have no business even being contact with your ex.

Let me ask you this: were you restless in your marriage and pining after your ex BEFORE he looked you up and confessed his love for you? Probably not. You're using your husband and discarding your child for some childhood fantasy that you've tried several times and has always failed. It will fail again, because you're both too fickle. If you were really in love with him, there's no way you would have been able to marry another man and have his son. As a parent, you need to make an effort to never do anything that would give your child a reason to be ashamed of you. Apply that to this scenario and you have your answer.

Im in love with my ex boyfriend but im married to another man?

You did love your husband enough to marry him, didn't you? And why the hell do you have a myspace account anyway, it is NOT something for married people to have unless it's an account that both you and your husband use to stay in touch with family and not for ex's.

It has been well said that grass is always greener on the other side but this other side that you have in mind does not exist. Should you go to your ex, he will never forget how he got you back. Could you possibly assure him that you would not it to him and go back to your ex-husband. He will never trust you and quite honestly, you will deserve every bit of it. With your ex-boyfriend you do not have to deal with life, it's a fantasy in your mind and should it become a reality, it would be a lot worse than what you are going through now.

Common sense would tell you that you must NEVER speak to your ex again. BUT I have a feeling that you are way too stupid to comprehend any of this till it's going to be TOO late.