Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

I've been with my bf for almost 2 years, but it's been off and on. He joined the military (i knew he was going in, he'd already committed) after 4 months of us being together. We realized we loved each other and wanted to be together. Since he's joined, i've seen him 3 times. THe first 2 times didnt go well (long story) He would still say, I Love you and wanted to be with me, but i was seeing other people. i didnt tell him. In January i really thought it was over. I saw he had myspace, it said, single, dont want kids. Since then we've rekindled things, realized we want this to work and love no one else but each other..but yes it's still single and dont want kids even though he says he wants to marry me and have kids. We have argued about it, he rarely goes on the thing, says he'll change it, but he hasnt. His family knows we are together, i dont see what the big deal is? I dont have energy to argue over it. We are in contact everyday he says he loves me, should i let it go

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

My advice would be to let it go, especially since he rarely logs in. If there are other worrisome things in the relationship, I would focus on resolving those. This is a relatively small thing that doesn't need to be causing stress in your relationship.

If it really bothers you, then you can frequently leave sweet and/or proprietary comments ('hi honey, i'm looking forward to spending every second with you when you come home' or 'hi sweetie, just wanted to let you know how glad i am to be your girlfriend!'). If he leaves your comments on his page without deleting them, then you know that he truly isn't trying to hide his relationship with you from other people on Myspace. :)

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

I know it defaults to Single, no kids. Maybe he didn't take the time to change the info. Doesn't really seem like you all have a strong relationship so I would worry about bigger things other than MySpace.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

If he's not on it that much I wouldn't worry about it. Myspace probably isn't very important to him.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

Don't let this go! If he really loves you and wants to have kids with you he would lose the Myspace account. I think he is wants his cake and eat it too. I say this because you said that he wants to marry you and have kids...to me that is a commitment on some level.....seems some people have overlooked that little detail on here.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

If I were him, the day you decided to date other people would have been the last time I had any romantic interest in you whatsoever. Somebody needs to tell him to dump you.

Dating other people is no way to show you are committed to working things out and interested in him. Silly person.

You didn't have an argument; you broke up and dated other people. Move on already.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

Yeah. If he rarely goes on %26amp; when he does, he probably doesn't think about it. Unless you have something else to go on, leave the poor soul alone!

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

You've only seen this guy 3 times in over a year and a half. You really can't know what to do with this relationship since you only dated 4 short months before he entered the service. I think this relationship is still in the dating phase, and I think to think otherwise would be foolish.

You really don't know someone well until you either live with them or close to them for a long time, at least a couple years.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but you surely don't want to get into a marriage and find out who he really is AFTER you've signed off on your independence.

Consider this a dating relationship until he gets out of the service and you are able to spend a lot of time together. Otherwise, I see a future of disaster, sorry.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

he's just getting backup coz he knows that if u leave him, he wouldnt b sble to get someone easily...and it's in a man to keep lookin.....dont get threatened!!

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

yes , he is in the military for God sakes, he can't even see anyone he wants to

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

I don't think you have anything to worry about. He may've just forgotten to change it. It's an automatic default.

Tell him about it, and THEN if he doesn't change it, then something is wrong.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

Tell him as long as it says single, you are free to see other people until it changes.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

He IS single, and what does it matter if it says he doesn't want kids? Let it go.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

You need to think about the situation first. Is it really the fact that he has a myspace account or is it the fact that you think he is going to do the same thing you did to him which is cheat. If that's the case then you really need to check yourself before you check him. It's not his fault that you cheated so don't make his life hell because you ruined yours.If he hasn't done anything to ruin your trust then let it be. Myspace is not a reason to end a marriage.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

First of all ...4 months.... girl that is to soon to get alljealous and out of control..calm down and relax. You know how to work myspace don't you ..you change it its soo easy to. If you don't feel safe and secure in this relationship and you don't trust him well then...well really there is no relationship.

Not sure what to think of my boyfriends Myspace?

it's just a stupid myspace page. Why would you let that worry you? It's not a big deal.