Saturday, November 21, 2009

Signs girlfriend isn't in love anymore?

she just acts different. she doesn't call like she used to now i do must of the calling. even on myspace she used to send a comment everyday sayin something like "i miss u baby but i know ur at work and i love you" nope no more of that i know its just myspace but still she's just different. i tell her that she's changed and she says she hasn't. she doesn't really smile as much and i feel sometimes that she's a lil distant. well im kinda tried of this i want my girl back and if i cant have her then im done with the one i got. am i wrong and what could i do to fix it because i've done everything whats her problem



Signs girlfriend isn't in love anymore?

Hey Shane,



I think whats happened in your relationship is that the "euphoric" phase has took its course, and now the real test of a relationship comes. "Euphoric phase?" well when you start dating someone, early on everything goes well. She leaves little comments on your wall, you phone each other every night, basically you guys are willing to do anything because your so "in love". Eventually this dies down.



Dont feel like the relationship is coming to an end! It will if you continue to think that way. Love is work, and you have to be able to show your love, it has to become a habit, *obviously that works both ways*.



I had the same problem you did with my last relationship. I had a pretty stellar girl as well. She didnt call me as often and as such i began to question the strength of her attraction to me. I actually questioned it so much that i ended our relationship. A month prior she was in france, she took my yearbook and wrote in it...wrote ALOT. I didnt open it until about a month after i broke up with her. Basically it said she loved me more than the world.



It is amazing sometimes what we percieve to be and what actually is. It was the biggest mistake in my life so far, so before you ditch out make double sure that its not just the transformation from that euphoric love to continous love.



But if your doing all the work in the relationship, and shes doing none of it, then id agree with you its time to move on...just consider what I brought up beforehand, you'll know whats right



Hope i helped bud.



Signs girlfriend isn't in love anymore?

you should talk to her about why shes acting so different. and if shes unhappy with the relationship then you guys shouldn't be together if she doesn't care about how you feel and that you're upset about the changes she's made with herself.



communication is everything. talk to her soon about it. good luck with it.



Signs girlfriend isn't in love anymore?

it might not be something with you maybe something else in her life is bothering her tell her you miss the way she used to be and that you want the old her back talk to her and tell her all of the little things shes doing diffrently and ask her why make sure you guys are a lone and she is comfortable and if she tells you she really hasnt changed and real explination then dont stress over it

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