Is he my true love? What should I do? Thank you for your help!?

The special person and I love each other for 4 years. We went to undergrad college. It was tons of chemistry, but I don閳ユ獩 want to have a relationship; therefore, I pretended to ignore him.

For 3 years we had never spoken, just enjoy looking at each other from distances. Before my graduation I told him that I am leaving. Although we did not really know each other, but I knew he cared!

I was very sad because I miss him so much. I thought I was going to forget him because we will never see each other again. But with God wills... I found his myspace. He wrotes poetries about us. He claims he does not know me, but he loves me. He does not know where I was and what to do, but he is going to wait for me!

I love him with all my heart, but I don't think the relationship will work. I came to the U.S. for my education. I will finish my master next year. I must go back home---my parent wait for me.

What should I do? I must should between the love of my life and my family.

Thank You

Is he my true love? What should I do? Thank you for your help!?

Omg,he is so shy toward girl just like you.This type of guy are rare type and base on their personality.They will be an excellent partner(Mostly*)

3yr of admiring you in sercet and 3yrs of watching your back.He is just too shy and he do not know how to approach you.However 3yrs is no joke,his will and faith toward is very strong.This is amazing.

However you have to have a direct chat with him,you need to ensure that do you think is it worth to start a relationship.Family maybe the first priority. =)

Is he my true love? What should I do? Thank you for your help!?

no

Is he my true love? What should I do? Thank you for your help!?

you sure go visit him for like 2 weeks and then if things dont go good go home to your family

Is he my true love? What should I do? Thank you for your help!?

Like it or not, we all will leave our parents to be united with the person we marry. It's not that you're selfish; even your parents leave their parents to be with each other. The decision rests with you -- do you really love this person?

Genesis 2:23-24

23 The man said,

"This is now bone of my bones

and flesh of my flesh;

she shall be called 'woman, [k] '

for she was taken out of man."

24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

Is he my true love? What should I do? Thank you for your help!?

First off, you shouldn't have to choose. If he loves you as much as he claims, confront him and ask him to come with you. But he will have a heavy burden of choosing, partially because he also has family somewhere who cares deeply for him. You also need to talk to your family about this. Since you are from a different country, will your family accept you and him as a couple? or will they reject him an you be stuck with that guilt of asking him to change his life for you and then be shut out completely? think about these questions and they will hopefully give you some peace about the situation..

Good Luck